Everything She Does Is Cute

Everything she does is cute. This is a very productive frame for the attraction phase. I've said this before, but now I'm devoting a whole post to it.

My internal belief is that every girl wants me. Adopt that if you want, but it makes it easy for me to adopt another powerful frame that `Everything she does it cute.' (Even when it really isn't or meant to be.)

This is most useful when things aren't going well, or when you're getting tested.

Examples:

Her: You're an asshole
You: OMG You're so cute, you're like the mean girls in high school I was afraid to talk to.

Her: You're a player.
You: You're so cute, you're like pop-psychoanalyzing me! Are you a psychic?

(NOTE: you can keep the "You're so cute part" in your head. It doesn't actually have to be verbalized.)

Her: You've got no game.
You: You're gonna be my new game coach! Like how's my body language?

Her: (Throws wadded napkin at you)
You: It's just like junior high! This is so fun!

You get the picture. Lots of times your first reaction is that something she does is NOT cute, but take this new frame and treat her actions like they're cute.

There's a time when it's better to put her in her place and tell her the way things are going to be, but that's a more advanced skill IMO. Try this frame out and see how much better you open and engage sets.

Game on!

Wilder